If you decide to do something that was poorly conceived, offensive to others, but without malicious intent… it’s the other party’s issue and you have no responsibility in the transaction. To boil that down, it tells me that you take no responsibility in your actions if it turns out that you were just doing “You”.
If I were to follow your logic, it would suggest that the world is a chaotic place that operates on a linear plane and things occur for no good reason especially where you are involved. If I were to simplify this perceived belief, then it also suggests that “Cause and Effect” are not linked in your world and everything occurs within it’s own little compartment. This frightens me about you. It makes me afraid to trust your logic and/or judgment.